I have been in Hefei just over two months now and I am still getting into the rhythm of things. My schedule has become pretty consistent since the new teachers arrived in early October, and thankfully my schedule became marginally lighter.
I quite enjoy my new school and my classes, so much so that I wouldn't want to switch any of them if I had the opportunity presented to me. Usually there is always one class that you despise, but more often than not I enjoy all my students even when they aren't on their best behavior. I have a 28 hour contract so I only get two days off every week, which does kind of suck, especially if I want to travel anywhere. I'm the busiest foreigner in Hefei and I have the most classes on my schedule. Sometimes it's nice being popular, but sometimes it's not!
My days off are Monday and Tuesday and this is when I get to catch up on sleep, go grocery shopping, do laundry, play with my cats and perhaps if time allows go somewhere nearby. Wednesday, Thursday and Friday mornings I teach at a local public elementary school where I teach grades 4 and 5. These students are all very lovely children, they are kind and are happy when I come to school. Their good attitudes make teaching so early in the morning seem less like a chore and more like a gift. With these students I am reminded daily that I love being a foreign English teacher. For Halloween I had the students create Halloween themed posters and the best drawings would receive a chocolate bar. So here are some of the best:
On Wednesday afternoon I teach at another elementary school, but this class is grade 2. This is an English school so the students are taught English and Chinese simultaneously. They also use technology to teach the lessons. The technology isn't very good and most of the lessons are too advanced for grade 2 to rally be doing, but I can do nothing about that. Grade 2 children are usually quite rambunctious and noisy so I am often beat after this class. I asked these kids to draw for Halloween as well. Only one student turned in a picture:
On Thursday afternoon I usually have a promotional class. I work at Aston 1 school, but I often do promotions for Aston 3 school which is kind of frustrating because I am doing all the work to get students that I won't ever be teaching. I have done so many promo's and demo classes that teaching these things have become like second nature to me. Most times the kids just are interested because you are a foreigner not because you speak English, so you are the new toy in a way. I enjoy working with all the Chinese teachers from the schools because they always seem really interested in me and getting to know me.
On Friday afternoon I have, what Aston calls, Office Hours. Usually Office Hours consist of three hours that you spend in the office either doing lesson planning (the usual) or having workshops (these are used to help teaching skills and sharing games). Then in the evening I have one class that lasts 30 minutes. This class is called a VIP Class because the parent pays extra money (a lot of money) to have their child taught alone.
When I first heard I had this class I was quite nervous and I was told the mother preferred that her son had a male teacher over a female teacher (usually it's the opposite). I was excited because I thought, well if she hates me then I don't have to teach the class and if she likes me that means I am a good teacher. I was also told that during our first class the mother and her English professor sister would observe me. That news made me quite nervous. After the class I was told that I did great and that she wanted me to teach her son. The class recently finished it's grade and the boy (Mark) and his mother resigned for another VIP class with me, but now they want me to teach for a whole hour.
Saturday and Sunday are the busy days. Starting at 8am and going till 5:45pm. Last week I got really sick on Friday night. I couldn't hold anything down, so I knew I had gotten my first case of major food poisoning (honestly I was surprised it took this long to happen). For foreigners, Friday night is the worst time to get sick because it's the beginning of the long weekend, which is our main work days. I ended up going to the hospital Saturday morning and I spent most of the day with IV's in me. I rested up on Sunday because I knew I wouldn't be able to teach let alone make to school without losing it. When you miss classes and no one fills in, the FT will have to at some point try to make up those classes missed since the student paid for Foreigner Time not just Chinese Time. Missing the classes and not making them up also means you lose a lot of money, which comes back to haunt you when you get your next pay check.
I recently went to a big hospital to see about getting some really important medicine that I haven't really had enough of for about 8 months. The consultation doctor I saw spoke very good English, but she was also like 9 months pregnant and about to pop.
They wanted to keep me in the hospital to regulate my insulin down quickly, but I told them I wasn't comfortable with that because A) I don't like hospitals in America and I certainly won't like them in China, B) Hardly anyone speaks English, C) I have to WORK! D) I have no one to stay with me and finally E) I don't speak Chinese, so if I needed help how the hell would I communicate with anyone. It's true that foreigners get preferential treatment, but still hospitals make me so stressed. I convinced them I could regulate it by myself, and honestly I have done it two times before when money or my location became a problem for me to get my medicine. I spent so much money on medicine and supplies that day, it was quite depressing. I am required to go back to the hospital once every month to check my levels and order me new insulin to use.
Now it has been a week since my illness and I am a thousand times better. Most people don't get excited going into work and I don't get excited going there, but once I arrive I am happy because I know I am good at what I do. I don't get any complaints I usually just get compliments from parents, students and my fellow teachers, which is totally awesome to hear.
My cats Aerrie and Tiffa have both been very helpful during my illness and were quite happy to follow my lead of being lazy and just sleeping and resting during my sick days. They are such great and funny cats.
Fall is moving in quickly here in Hefei, but luckily it is going to be a much milder winter than in Xianyang, my old city. The leaves are starting to change and the air is becoming colder with every day that passes. I actually enjoy winter more so than the heat of summer, sometimes I wish we could have the beauty of summer with the temperature of winter. What a lovely thought!
Well its been one month since I arrived in Hefei, Anhui and so far so good. Teaching is like second nature now, so a lot of the planning I do for my classes aren't needed as much as before. I enjoy all my classes a lot and my schedule is perfect. I love my job, I don't think I say that enough, even to myself. I haven't done much in the way of fun, but I've just now gotten my first holiday vacation. I was originally given 5 days off, but due to another teachers laziness and the schools lack of communication, I worked for one extra day (yay overtime pay!).
I always set high goals for myself during holidays, meaning I plan every day out to a T. I usually stray from the plan because I like sleeping and/or I found something else to do. Tuesday I went to Swan Lake, which is very beautiful. It even has a fake beach, but too bad the water is like toxic (yet I did see some swimmers!). This trip took all day and I got a lot of exercise by walking through the whole park and around the lake.
The next day I received a text saying it would be great if I could take out the new foreigners for dinner since they had just arrived yesterday. My plan for that day was to visit the Hefei Botanical Garden, which is quite far, so I crossed that plan out. I did some research and asked around to see where I could buy a kitten. It's lonely here in Hefei, especially at night, so I really wanted a cat for myself. I am a nurturer by nature and I have always had cats in my life, I mean for god's sake my nickname is Kat, so I wanted a cat.
I found an open street market and looked around. The open market had quite a variety of animals, cats, dogs, turtles, fish, guinea pigs, hamsters, bunnies, birds and even a porcupine. Many of them were so cute and I wanted to take them all home, but I couldn't. I was a foreigner, so I knew most of the prices they offered me would be higher than normal, but I didn't care. There were some kittens, but they looked older and I wanted a baby.
Then I found Tiffa, buried underneath some other cats, sleeping. I told the man I wanted this one and he fished out a bag to put Tiffa into and I said to wait. I know the animals here aren't treated with compassion or kindness, usually, but I refused to put my cat into a bag to carry home. I bought a carrier two stalls down and put Tiffa in it. I didn't try to bargain the price down for Tiffa, 50rmb ($8) because I knew she is worth so much more. I believe Tiffa is Tortoiseshell cat, beautiful coloring. She is sweet and such a baby. She loves to sleep on my face and neck at night. She hates cages, probably because she has always been in one. She loves to play and she is a natural at using a litter box.
I went out to dinner with our new teachers who just arrived on Oct. 1st. Late arrival teachers are difficult because everything has already begun and training has already been completed. Of course, since the teachers are new not only to China, but to teaching as well they need training. Usually a manger would train the teachers, but our manager is on vacation, so as Senior Teacher it falls to me. I'm actually not upset I have to do this because I know I am good at this type of thing. I'm a meticulous planner and I know how to show others how to do things. The teachers are from South Africa, two girls and a boy. One has experience teaching, whereas the others do not. I met them for dinner and we had a blast. So far I have never met a South African that I didn't like which is still true. I train them this weekend for 5 hours at two different locations, in order to train them properly as each school has different teaching methods. Hopefully my training will show them the seriousness of teaching and that this isn't just a paid vacation (not saying they are this way just that a lot of people who come here believe it's just a joy ride and that teaching is a joke, which is disrespectful).
When traveling or even working in a new place there are processes to go through in order to become more comfortable. So that's what I have been doing. I always try to keep myself busy because if I'm not then I get stir crazy or just watch TV/sleep all day. Deciding to go to a new place/job is always difficult because no matter where you were before you always compare the two and you realize the stuff you took for granted before, but you also realize some other things that weren't great their as well. In life we always compare and it drives me crazy when other people do it, but I find myself doing it quite often.
I like being a foreign teacher and I enjoy working hard, but there are always some foreigners who come to teach for the wrong reasons; cheap country, booze, partying, laziness, etc. It's hard talking to people who don't enjoy teaching or the place where they are working. It's also hard trying to work with others who are so lazy and take advantage, not only of the school, but of their co-workers as well. Everyone has those days where everything is going wrong and they lash out, even I have those days, but in the end I don't hate this country and I don't hate the people. It's hard listening to others talk so badly about China when, in fact, they chose to come here. Again I love my job, so I get defensive when others talk badly about it.
I also love getting paid for my work, so I can't wait for pay day (7,300rmb/$1,192 + overtime pay! - electricity, water and internet ;-;). This will be my first time paid in Hefei and my largest pay in China.
I have been in Hefei, Anhui, China for 4 days and so far I have liked what I've seen and eaten, which I guess is a really good thing. I remember when I first got to Xianyang, I was scared and didn't know anything or anyone. At least here I have a friend and I am a lot more tolerant towards Chinese society and cultural quirks. This city is a lot larger than the one I was in before, so it's always busy (reminds me of LA when I see the crazy-ass traffic) and of course a lot more complicated. Yet there are also definitely a lot more things to do here in the ways of food, shopping, movies, bars/KTV, sports, close traveling, sightseeing and meeting new people.
On arrival we had an apartment set up, but it was missing a few things; closet, sofa and
internet (also food but that's quite normal when you go to a new place). The apartment is quite nice and new; we are on the 9th floor (elevator baby! Yes!). I got my own room, with a balcony view of the Anhui University soccer field and it even has a desk (its bigger than my last room) and I even got my own closet on the third day! Our living room is nice, although it is usually hot there even with the ceiling fan turned on, and the couch adds a nice personal touch to it. We have a kitchen table, water dispenser and a fridge. Our laundry room is also attached to my balcony and it has a nice high-tech washer (high-tech for China to say the least). Our bathroom is very clean and pretty! Our kitchen (which I believe I will be the only one using) is also very beautiful and clean; I plan to keep it that way to! We got internet by the third day, so after that we were happy.
The school, I should say schools because we have 4 in this city, are in a big mess. The four schools are located in different parts of the city (the schools have expanded too quickly and don't seem to be making as much money as they should). School 1 has 600 students enrolled (my school in Xianyang has over 1,000 and is approximately the same size area wise), School 2 has 300 students, School 3 has 100 students and is mainly an Electronic Whiteboard school (this is the one I mainly want to teach at), and School 4 has only 60 students. So far there are eight teachers for the four schools: Me (with 25 hours), Eric (with 15 hours), Hope (an American guy who has worked here before), David (a regional fill-in teacher here for another 3-4 months), a part-time teacher (only works one day a week, can we say useless!) and 3 South Africans (Boyfriend/Girlfriend and mother who want to live/teach together and who have never been to China --> these are the ones we are worried about the most because if one doesn't like the school then they all don't)... So literally we have 6 full-time teachers (We're going to be busy!). We were also supposed to have another teacher coming in from America, but because of lack of communication from the school he decided to go to another place in China.
Problems like these are so silly, but very common in China if no one is told what to do and
how to do it (usually it is just the Chinese management telling us what they need and want, but not really addressing the real problems). In America if someone did stuff like this they would be fired, but here it is quite different. The schools themselves, at least 1 and 2 need redecorating and some remodeling done to attract new clients. The schools have told us they wish to increase enrollment, but we realize we can't even focus on that because of all the other underlying issues and the fact that we don't have enough teachers to increase enrollment right now even if we tried!
It seems as though within the last couple months the schools relationships with its foreign teachers has completed dissipated. No one knows the real reasons why because it seems everyone has a different side to their story, so it makes it very confusing to understand anything. Yet there are a few things you can easily see that need to change in order to make new foreigners want to stay, such as:
1) Communication - the lack of communication and timely/courteous communication is really bad here, if we can somehow fix it or improve it then a lot of minor and major problems would be solved.
2) Timeliness - Don't be late, especially an hour late and don't expect someone to be on time when you give them shitty directions in a city they have never been to or been given a map.
3) Maps - We can follow maps, it makes it easier for us to travel and find things with these.
4) Schedules - As foreigners and especially as teachers we need a schedule in order to understand what we are expected to do every week.
5) 24 Hour Notice - Unless it is an absolute emergency, give us some notice - at least a day notice.
6) Have a Plan of Action - Don't drag us everywhere all day because you didn't call ahead of time and make sure of everything!
7) Friendliness - Foreigners like to be treated with friendliness because we came to China to experience good things, not someone just telling me to "Go, Stay, Sit, Wait!" without saying please or sounding sincere. The nicer you are the nicer and happier we are.
Luckily I am not the manager, although my friend is, and thank god he is up for the challenge
this school will bring us in the next year. I am the Senior Teacher, so demo-classes and open houses will be mostly me, but honestly I am comfortable with those things. Hopefully we can fix a lot of these problems with meetings and team-building exercises, it will take time and I know this. The school realizes it's not doing so well and that their relationships with foreigners aren't stable, so I believe they are willing to change or else their school will likely fail in the coming years as many Aston schools are already doing slowly but surely. There is a lot of work to be done.
I believe having a challenge builds you up, keeps you on your toes and raises your ability to adapt and take on anything that is thrown at you --> Like Po in Kung Fu Panda 2 when he catches the fireworks cannon ball and throws it back at them (that is how I see myself).
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I can't believe it has been a year already! It's hard to believe it's coming to an end so quickly. I haven't written a blog post in a long time, mainly due to the fact that I haven't had a single day off in 2 months (Summer Intensive, plus normal classes = no breaks for me). I am writing one now knowing that I only have 6 hours left in Xianyang, Shaanxi, China, literally my first home in China. I know I will miss this place, especially the people I have come to know as my friends.
Sometimes I ask myself: Why are you leaving? You are comfortable here, you know everyone! Then I realize I didn't come to China to settle down, I came to China to explore and gain experiences during my travels that know one else can have except me. Some people have worked in the same place for more than 5 years and never really went anywhere else to see what they had to offer, I won't allow myself to get stuck in one place. China is so big, and I really do want to experience as much of it as I can.
My new city, Hefei, is about a 17 hour train ride from Xi'an. I am also going to a whole new
province, Anhui, farther down south and more towards the east and the coast. It will be a little warmer, sadly, but also much wetter and less cold during the winter. It has a huge natural lake as well, so local seafood (from the lake) is caught. Hefei is also the capitol city of Anhui, so it is a large city with a metro and lots of foreign stores and restaurants. I chose this city because I have tried out a smaller city in China and now I want to see what the bigger cities have to offer, whether it be more or less in some areas. I will be the Senior Teacher at the new school so I will be working 28 hours a week, unlike here where I worked 25 hours a week. I am excited because not only do I get paid more, but it also looks good on a resume!
One of the hardest things about leaving any place is deciding what to take and what to leave behind. I hate packing because I hate choosing. I had to get rid of many things that I would have liked to keep but knew I would never use anyway.
Turns out I have too much stuff so I will have my friend ship me two things (some winter clothes and laptop case with documents in it) after I get to Hefei. Sometimes I wish I could pack like a guy...
I have many friends here in Xianyang and I will miss them greatly, but I have learned a lot about
how the Chinese and Foreigners work. Chinese teachers usually come and go frequently and unexpectedly because of being mistreated or not being paid enough and sometimes because they are pregnant. Foreigners have contracts which are either 6 months or a year, so after that time has passed most of them travel to someplace new like me. No one makes decisions based off friends, they aren't going to stay for you.
A lot of times in the past I have made decisions because I wanted to be closer to my friends, but in the long run you have to do what is best for you. After realizing stuff like that I made a decision to leave this city in order to do what I came to do, travel and explore. Of course I want to stay, solely for my friends and my own comfortability, but I know it won't always be that way. The Chinese teachers said that I should stay because I am a good teacher and I know they are also nervous about having new inexperienced teachers to deal with. I will definitely come visit them, plus my friend JJ (from Arizona; we met last year when we were both applying to get certified to teach in a foreign country, so I have been helping him out by answering a lot of his questions) will be in Weinan, which is a city near Xi'an. I will go show him some good places to eat there.
Hopefully in my new city I make some awesome friends again and meet some really nice
people. I'm trying to keep my expectations low so I am not surprised or saddened by anything, but China always has a way of surprising you at the weirdest moments.
I will miss most of my students quite a lot and I hope I have made a difference in their lives and taught them to think outside the Chinese box and into their dreams. Maybe when I return to this city for a visit I can see my students again and they will remember me (Chinese students have so many foreigners come in and out of their lives, that it is common for them to forget).
I have been in Hefei just over two months now and I am still getting into the rhythm of things. My schedule has become pretty consistent since the new teachers arrived in early October, and thankfully my schedule became marginally lighter. 
On Thursday afternoon I usually have a promotional class. I work at Aston 1 school, but I often do promotions for Aston 3 school which is kind of frustrating because I am doing all the work to get students that I won't ever be teaching. I have done so many promo's and demo classes that teaching these things have become like second nature to me. Most times the kids just are interested because you are a foreigner not because you speak English, so you are the new toy in a way. I enjoy working with all the Chinese teachers from the schools because they always seem really interested in me and getting to know me.
Saturday and Sunday are the busy days. Starting at 8am and going till 5:45pm. Last week I got really sick on Friday night. I couldn't hold anything down, so I knew I had gotten my first case of major food poisoning (honestly I was surprised it took this long to happen). For foreigners, Friday night is the worst time to get sick because it's the beginning of the long weekend, which is our main work days. I ended up going to the hospital Saturday morning and I spent most of the day with IV's in me. I rested up on Sunday because I knew I wouldn't be able to teach let alone make to school without losing it. When you miss classes and no one fills in, the FT will have to at some point try to make up those classes missed since the student paid for Foreigner Time not just Chinese Time. Missing the classes and not making them up also means you lose a lot of money, which comes back to haunt you when you get your next pay check.
Now it has been a week since my illness and I am a thousand times better. Most people don't get excited going into work and I don't get excited going there, but once I arrive I am happy because I know I am good at what I do. I don't get any complaints I usually just get compliments from parents, students and my fellow teachers, which is totally awesome to hear. 
